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Every day, be it at work, at home or in public, we communicate with \u00a0our loved ones and even people we just bump into along the way. In these conversations, it’s important that we are mindful of how we look, how we behave, what we say, and how we say it. All of these factors are crucial in creating and preserving amiable relationships that provide everyone mutually-beneficial social connections and positive feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

Imagine a scenario where we just mind our own business. Nobody talks to one another. It’s boring, isn’t it? How about a situation in which the moment we start talking, animosity develops instantly. It’ll be chaos.<\/span><\/p>\n

We all need to interact one way or another and when we do, it is very important that the right words are spoken, the right tone is delivered, and the right body language is shown. Our actions or behaviors are all prone to misinterpretations and when some sensitive buttons are pushed, inadvertently or not, relationships are at stake.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s where assertiveness comes in.<\/span><\/p>\n

Most dictionaries define being assertive as simply being confident and determined. However, being such\u00a0is much more than that. After all, it came from its root word, assert<\/em> that means ‘to express something positively’ whether it’s a standpoint or anything else.<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, to be assertive is to be confident yet positive. We don’t want to come across as annoying. Really, there’s a fine line between being bold and being arrogant. We don’t want to cross the line.<\/span><\/p>\n

The first step to learning and mastering being assertive is possessing a positive outlook and allowing ourselves to dwell on happy thoughts and optimism instead. True enough, what we say is a product of how and what we think. Therefore, if our impressions are favorable, there’s no need to worry about hurting other people’s feelings or being hated for having an unbearable attitude.<\/span><\/p>\n

Next is to remember the following. Being assertive is…<\/span><\/p>\n